Arriving at Capilano: Understanding Canadian Values

From Capilano College

When you first arrive in Canada, you may experience feelings of confusion and uncertainty about Canadian customs and values. Everyday behaviour in Canada is likely to be very different from your culture. One thing to keep in mind is that Canada, and particularly Vancouver, is not a place that can be represented by one ethnic group, one religion, one food, or one anything! It is a 'mosaic', a place where people from different places and cultures have come together to create a unique community where all cultures are celebrated and appreciated. You should never feel like you need to change yourself in order to "fit in". You may be surprised by how many people will want to hear about your homeland. Being different is never a bad thing - think of it as being unique and interesting!

Although there is not one fixed example of what or who a "Canadian" is, you will quite frequently encounter some values and attitudes that have been created as a result of this multicultural atmosphere, and come as close to being typically "Canadian" as possible. Some of these are:

Individualism
Freedom and individuality are very important to Canadians. They are taught from an early stage that they are responsible for their own situations in life and their destinies. Canadians usually see themselves as individuals more than as a member of a group, nation, or even a family. You will experience this in the classroom because your instructors will want to know your opinion about the topics discussed. It may surprise you to watch your Canadian classmates interact with their professors. In Canada, it is acceptable for students to ask questions or make comments in the classroom, even when they disagree with the professor. This is not a sign of disrespect, if it is done in an appropriate manner.

Privacy
Privacy is also very important to Canadians. The belief that people are all unique individuals leads to the belief that they need time and space to themselves. Canadians stand approximately one arm's length away from each other when they are speaking casually, but this distance differs with different kinds of relationships. Personal space in your culture may be different from Canadians but you will quickly learn these subtle Canadian values and customs.

Informality
Canadians tend to relate rather informally with one another. When speaking with family or friends, 'slang' language is commonly used by Canadian youths. Casual attire is acceptable for students to wear to school.

Politeness
You will notice early in your stay in Canada that Canadian people are very polite. They say "please" and "thank you" very often in public situations. When waiting in line, Canadians generally line up in an orderly manner. When they interrupt or accidentally bump another, Canadians say, "Excuse me".

Equality
Canadians believe in the equality of all people, regardless of race or heritage, gender, age, or disability. In everyday social interactions, there is no rigid hierarchy system which influences behaviour.

Punctuality
Canadians are generally on time for appointments and meetings and they expect the same of others. You make a good impression if you are always on time. If you cannot keep an appointment or are going to be late, it is important to call immediately and inform your host.

Small Talk
You will notice that lots of people (even perfect strangers) ask, "How are you?" or say, "Hello," while few of them will actually take the time to talk to you. In order to avoid any complications, you might want to think of "How are you?" as the Canadian equivalent to "Good morning" or "Good afternoon". Unless you are talking to a close friend, you are not expected to explain the true state of your mind. Just say something like "Good, and how about you?" and smile! Canadians are generally uncomfortable with silence and they use "small talk" frequently. This includes conversations that cover topics Canadians consider to be "safe" (not too personal) like the weather, what they are studying, travel or holiday plans and recreational activities.

Tolerance and Political Correctness
Canadians strive to respect the individuality of others and like to think of themselves as being very tolerant of different cultures, beliefs, and lifestyles. Stereotyping and prejudice of all kinds do exist in Canada, but in isolation from mainstream society. You will likely hear the term 'political correctness' used in Canada. Political correctness means that people are expected to express themselves in a manner that is not offensive to anyone. Generally, it is considered inappropriate to make jokes or derogatory remarks about disadvantaged or minority groups in society. In fact, you could be charged with discrimination and/or harassment if you do.

Adjusting to Canada
It is natural for a person to feel uncomfortable when first encountering a culture that is different from their own. Understanding these basic Canadian beliefs and values should help your adjustment. Volunteering is a great way to meet people, make friends, gain some experience, and actively contribute to the community you live in. In Vancouver, you will often find festivals, concerts and other community events that advertise and look for volunteers. Volunteers are always needed, so if you are interested, please call North Shore Community Services at 604.985.7138 and find out what volunteer opportunities exist. Chances are, you will find something that you will enjoy.